This past March, one of my husband's partners from work passed away very suddenly and unexpectedly. He was our age, and it was quite a shock. He has a wife and four children who are almost the same exact ages as our four children. When he died, Jeff asked if I might want to draw a portrait of him, since I had done one of our friend who had passed away in November last year. I debated, but didn't know if I would be able to do it, since I didn't know Greg (the partner) as well and wondered if I could pull it off effectively. Then, after a couple of months, I decided to give it a try. I figured that if it looked horrible, I just wouldn't give it to his wife, and nobody would even know I had tried. I went through some photos of him that we had gotten from his wife for a news report. I actually started with his professional work photo, but he normally wore glasses and this work photo had him without glasses. And, the drawing just really didn't look like him. So, I scrapped that, and tried again. I found a photo of him with his kids that I thought looked like the Greg I remembered. I enlarged it, but it had a fairly low resolution, which made it hard to see the details. But, I got started and it went pretty well. I went to my art teacher who helped me with some details and, by piecing other photos together, with the one I was using, I was able to get the drawing done to look like him. I even had Jeff take it to work and ask people if they thought it looked like him, because I wanted to be sure it really did before I gave it to his family.
I framed it and gave it to his family, and they like it, and they say it looks like him, so it worked out just fine. I was nervous, as I always am presenting a drawing to someone, but my nerves were calmed by their positive reaction to it. I wanted to get his wife's approval before posting about it on the blog, and even after I did, I forgot to post this. I saw her again last night and figured I had better do it before I forgot again. The photograph is a little dark, but it is the best one I have, and you can still get the idea. I am glad I did the portrait though. I was nervous, but in the end, it was worth it. :)
We absolutely love it. It was such a meaningful gift. We keep this in our main living room and everyone who comes into our home comments on how much it looks like Greg. Thank you very much!!!
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